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Talking Your Way to Happiness: Well-being Is Related to Having Less Small Talk and More Substantive Conversations

“Greater well-being was related to spending less time alone and more time talking to others: The happiest participants spent 25% less time alone and 70% more time talking than the unhappiest participants. In addition to the difference in the amount of social interactions happy and unhappy people had, there was also a difference in the types of conversations they took part in: The happiest participants had twice as many substantive conversations and one third as much small talk as the unhappiest participants.

These findings suggest that the happy life is social and conversationally deep rather than solitary and superficial. The researchers surmise that — though the current findings cannot identify the causal direction — deep conversations may have the potential to make people happier. They note, “Just as self-disclosure can instill a sense of intimacy in a relationship, deep conversations may instill a sense of meaning in the interaction partners.” (via psychotherapy)



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“The point is that there’s often an indefatigable gap between the rigors of cost-benefit analyses and the emotional hunches that drive our decisions. We say we want to follow the evidence, but then the evidence rubs against a bias like loss aversion, and so we make an exception. We’ll follow the evidence next time.”

Jonah Lehrer (via ninakix)



Reblogged from Young and Brilliant.
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This video is an interesting, quick segment on an experiment done at Stanford called “The Marshmallow Experiment”…a very interesting study that has a whole lot of things to potentially teach us about how to help kids be successful later in life (the original study followed the kids taking the test for the next 18 years).

We have a culture now that says ‘Eat the Marshmallow!’

I highly recommend taking five minutes to check this one out, especially if you’re a parent (or ever want to be).

(via psychotherapy)



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